I-It versus I-Thou: Emily Tucker
According to Martin Buber, an "I" is never isolated from an "other." It is either in an "I-It" relationship or an "I-Thou" relationship. "I-It" is compared to a third-person outlook that is always about the "I" in relation to an object ("it"). "I-Thou" is compared to a second-person outlook where it is two people talking face-to-face. "You" is not defined-- it is fathomless. The center is between the two individuals, opposed to the "I-It" where "I" is at the center. "I-Thou" is unmediated and without expectation. It is transaction-less. It allows for encounters to occur between people, whereas experience happens within an individual. Speaking "with" someone, opposed to speaking "to" someone is what differentiates experiential understanding.
Throughout the class we have kept this theme in relation to hikers and their relationships to both other hikers as well as "Trail Angels". We deemed that these relationships go against our societal instincts of "transactional equality". We are stuck in a mindset transactional friendship where one thing is given in exchange for something else. However, this is not true relational friendship. Genuine equality doesn't keep track of exchange. It is simply just friendship void of transactions and expectations. It is through things like "Trail Angels", "Trail Magic", and "Trail Grace" that restores faith in humanity. All of these things are rooted in an "I-Thou" mentality. We should look outward into the world and seeing Relationships, opposed to Things.
Exegesis is letting the story manifest itself to you, without you projecting your own preconceptions or meaning onto it. Going on a journey is a way of exegeting and rewriting our life's story. This is a journey towards integrity and authenticity. You can't accurately exegete your life if you maintain a persona. Language conceals one's whole relationship with the world. This is because words carry weight and connotations. Words thematize by categorizing things into preconceptions that fit into a box we have created in order to make sense of it. Every time we describe something, we are thematizing. This leads into the idea of the "saying" versus the "said". When we project things onto others, what they might be saying, we receive as a "said" since we are preconceiving what we think they are saying, instead of unbiasedly letting them reveal themselves to us. We are inadvertently placing them into a box.
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